Maybe I was avoiding this one.  I know my spiritual assessment is not going to be good.  I have been slipping steadily for the last six years (you make one wrong choice and it can take a lot to get back to making the right choices).

Still, if you’re not growing, you’re going backwards, and I want to grow.

The UCR Wellness Center lists several things for checking your spiritual health.  Even if you don’t think you’re religious, you still have a spiritual side, so this is for everyone:

  • Do I make time for relaxation in my day?  I am actually much better at this than I used to be.  I used to be so OCD that if I wasn’t doing something (or multiple things), I got twitchy.  Now I’ve improved immensely.
  • Do I make time for meditation or prayer?  Ouch.  For some people, this is straight-out prayer or ohm or whatever.  For some it is journaling (including some amazing prayer warriors).  It’s a matter of getting it all out on the table, inspecting it, and dealing with it.  I don’t do this.  Well, now that I’m blogging again, this is a little bit of that, but I worry about what you all think on occasion.  I need to do more praying.
  • Do my values guide my decisions and actions?  They didn’t for a while.  I justified a lot of things with the word “fair” or “I deserve”.  If I really got what I deserve, you’d want to stand back a bit.
  • Am I accepting of the viewpoints of others?  Ooh, I’m actually much better at this, too.  I can’t change you.  I’ve started not even wanting to change others.  If you want your opinion, go for it.  I have mine; I know what I believe and why I believe it.  When people want to have a good, clean discussion about something and we have alternate viewpoints, I can get into the discussion without getting frustrated.

To me, there is a lot more to spiritual health than what is here, though.  Am I carrying around guilt?  Unforgiveness?  To me, those are more spiritual than social.

Here are my goals:

Short-Term (3 Months)

* Do the Beth Moore study Breaking Free (with workbook)

* Find a church

* Spend daily time (15 minutes/day) in prayer– try it as a journal so I focus better

Medium-Term (One Year)

* Join a church and attend regularly

* Re-read Know What You Believe and Know Why You Believe

* Schedule one true “rest day” per week and one true “rest weekend” per year

Long-Term (Five Years +)

* Put the guilty stuff to rest (it may take the whole five years)

* Get to the point of having a discussion without getting upset when someone else is unfair (yeah, another one that may take the whole five years)

* Be at peace with where I’m at spiritually (but still be growing!)

 

I haven’t had anyone share their goals yet.  If you’re following along, have you been making goals?  I’d love to see them in the comments.

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